You can choose to reflect on your past failures and mistakes with shame and embarrassment....but you can change all that when you shift your perspective and adjust your mindset. Here's the thing, we all fuck up. We say and do things we WISH we never did, or we wonder what in the hell we were thinking! We let our anxieties, fears and limiting beliefs screw with us! Here's how to turn it around: learn from your failure and choose a different course of action. You can trust the Universe to give you countless new opportunities to change your actions and learn from your mistakes. This is why people find themselves in the same situations over and over again. (You know, that person who always picks the wrong guy, the friendship disasters you always get caught up in, the same fights you keep having with your family....the list can go on!)
It's never too late to become self-reflective, take notice of your patterns and 'failures' and see them for what they are (lessons waiting to be learned). In no time you will find yourself less affected by the same old crap and reacting differently when a similar situation shows up in your life. Total perk: YOU WILL FEEL BETTER! isn't that always the goal?
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