Powerful message by @breenylee
READ BELOW 👇👇👇👇👇👇👇 .
IT'S NOT MY RESPONSIBILITY TO BE BEAUTIFUL. I'M NOT ALIVE FOR THAT PURPOSE. MY EXISTENCE IS NOT ABOUT HOW DESIRABLE YOU FIND ME ." – @wu_shire
When I first heard these words it cut me to my core because I thought wow on a conscious level I know this right? but yet I realized subconsciously I've been living my life through the eyes of others, viewing my value through the eyes of others. If a man does not look back when I walk past I must not look pretty enough today, don't worry tomorrow I'll do my makeup better, then I'll get the attention, THEN I'll feel loved. Wrong. No amount off attention can make you feel good enough babygirl. It's a vicious cycle till you realise that you are OK just as you are.
God never put the value of any human on the outside, that's why no matter what you look like, you ARE intrinsically valuable and you ARE enough! Don't let this backwards world poison you young lady/man. •
It's been 2 months since I cut my hair and it just feels so good to #breathe
this was never JUST about the hair, it was about the barriers that stopped me from really having to looking deep within myself. As long as I could dress up the outside for everyone else and distract people with how good I appeared to look then who really needs do the inner work? I mean who wants to be real when you can be fake? it's so much easier. But fake brings conflict and real brings peace of mind and so I wanted to be at peace with myself more than I wanted to the approval of other people so I just went for it. •
So here it is Series 1 of #SoulSurgery
is officially over yet the lessons and the growth still remains. If you want to kick start your own self love journey click the link in my bio. Self love is the first love! How you see yourself effects every area of your life which is why it is SO very important. Thank you for embarking on this journey with me beautiful soul, please share with anyone you think who needs it. The world is changing. Don't conform, stay true to your convictions and be who God made you. Love you, later x