Who we choose to listen to and whose advice we take on board can have a huge impact on things like self esteem, confidence, decision making, quality of life and creating the life and work you really want.
You can't be taking financial advice from people who are broke or health tips from unhealthy people or listening to diet stories from people “struggling to lose weight" or relationship advice from people with toxic, unfulfilled and unhappy relationships or looking for spiritual guidance from people who are not practicing and manifesting spirituality in their lives.
All too often we take advice from people whose personal lives are in shambles. It’s true that there may be value in listening to people who have made a lot of mistakes, but only if we put their advice in the category of “don’t let this happen to me.” So before you take that advice that is being offered, take a good look at who is delivering it. Carefully study their energy, their lifestyle, their health and their relationships, and if they are living the life they talk — then, and only then should you listen, you also have to look out for motives. Some people would give you advice that would just sabotage everything.
Just like you wouldn’t go to a hairdresser to learn how to change the oil on your car, or you wouldn’t go to the mechanic to learn how to color your hair, don’t seek relationship advice from people who aren’t qualified to give good, quality advice.
See ehh me I am filtering anything before it goes to my mind… can't be accepting everything 'hook line and sinker'.
Happy filtering.. #becareful #besmart
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