Do you struggle with making decisions?
Are you currently unsure of which direction to take?
Are you fearful of making the wrong decision and costing yourself time, money & energy?
Are you afraid that you’ll make a bad investment?
Throughout much of my life, I let the world decide for me. I let my parents decide. I let my friends decide. I let my brothers decide. I let my teachers decide. I let my boyfriends decide. I let my employer decide. Heck, I even let strangers decide.
It seemed like the quickest, easiest path for getting into action and not having to deal with my internal world, was to just let anyone and everyone make the decisions for me.
I let the voices in my external world drown out the voice in my internal world.
The problem is, living life this way becomes increasingly painful and unfulfilling, as though you are trapped on a rollercoaster that you thought was a train.
Taking you through exhilarating highs and terrifying lows, but ultimately your trapped in a never ending loop and when you zoom out and take a meta perspective, you realise you’ve been running on the spot, never getting ahead. Life becomes boring.
You’ve seen all this life has to offer.
That’s when the inner voice that you’ve been drowning out by the voices in the carriages next to you, starts to make an appearance: “Is this all there is? Is this really it? There has to be something better than this!” I’m not going to lie, this isn’t the point where your life gets easier. As a mentor of mine Brendon Burchard puts it: “When you knock on the door of Opportunity, it’s WORK that answers.” But what I do guarantee you, is that the work that answers this door of opportunity is the most rewarding, fulfilling and awakening work you could ever imagine. It comes second to none.
Ultimately, the only way to know what decision to make, to avoid a bad investment, is by knowing who you are and what you want.
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