It's all about perspective baby ☺☺ I get it - being dumped is hard. Finding out someone you love no longer loves you is hard. It hurts. It's painful.
Or is it?
Anything we FEEL is a reflection of what we have let it MEAN
And if we decide that this person was SO AMAZING and MEANT FOR US then obviously - we will also have decided to feel pain.
What if you let it mean something else though?
Something more honest and respectful to yourself?
Reframe time : do you truly believe that you are worth anything less than having someone that is completely, deeply and clearly in love with you?
Do you believe that the love you deserve is for someone who isn't really into you, to stay with you out of pity? Or fear?
No - I didn't think so.
So that person - that one that left you behind, what they did is KIND, not PAINFUL.
Because they took themselves out of the way of someone who would TRULY love you coming into your life.
You want pain? You want hurt? That's what you get when that person you love stays with you for years pretending they love you only to eventually admit they don't.
So this? Having someone dump you because they don't love you? That's reason to believe in love - that they care enough to know you deserve better.
As always- your choice what you choose to believe. Make it powerful
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