I think it's so important to know what you truly want before you are ready to fully accept another person into your life.
It happens that in times of loneliness and fear we tend to be flexible when it comes to important things ( faith, lifestyle, habits, background ,etc) but it usually doesn't work so well past 2-3 months of dating.
When you make your "list" focus on must haves for personality and qualities not so much on career and material things. That's stuff is great , but the shiny things can make you blind towards what really matters .
Plus one can always make more money, or change jobs, but you can't change a person. Sent via @planoly #planoly