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When life is hard I try real hard to focus on the joy. It didn't work fully today but my friend came over and helped me talk it through. This dress had me feeling like a flapper all day. #Twirl #EverydayTwirl
The past week has been rough. But I'm here. I'm doing the thing. I'm going.
Don't underestimate, i know more than i say, think than i speak, and notice more than you realize... 📷 @rudi_mamen 👓 Taman Sejarah, Bandung . . . #plussizefashion #curvy #girl #fashion #ootd #bodypositive #bigandblunt #curvyasian #plussizeasian #curves #whatiwear #iamsexysize #celebratemysize #likes #beautyatanysize #instadaily #weekend #iamcurve #plussizestyle #park #happy #amazing #cute
When you're looking like you're on vacation, but you're really heading into work. 🌴🤣 Woe is me. This off-shoulder tie-dye dress is from @shoppinkblush! Again, I'm 5'9", wearing 3X. ANYWAY, now that I have y'alls attention... For anyone that reads my blog, what topics would you like me to write about? Or advice you need? Let me know in the comments!
Thanks for all the people that tuned in to @yourstruelymelly & my live tonight. I know it was raw... loud.... petty... angry.... hostile... honest... upset.... all in response to a YouTube video that was inarguably posted about us, framing us as bullies, ableists, and "fucked up". Maybe it wasn't a great idea to go live with raw emotions, but thank you for dealing with our level of sheer immature fuckery. I really appreciate that I can be my loud and unreserved self when I feel attacked and it is a safe space here to work through those feelings. I'm not sure if I'll respond to the video. I'm not sure if there's anything I can say that'll make things better or right. All I have is right now. And right now, I'm grateful that when left with either the choice of screaming angrily and cursing or crying in self pity and defeat, that you all let me scream and be angry. It's always the greatest honor to be received as I come, fuck ups and all, by people I care about deeply. If no one's told you today, rest assured that I care and I care about you. <> . . . . #curves #effyourbeautystandards #body_lovee #plus_isamust #allsizebeauties #boldncurvy #bodypositive #plusmodelmag #plussize #plussizeblogger #plussizefashion #picoftheday #fashion #style #ootd #psootd #inspiration #andigetdressed #fullfigured_fashion #styleandcurvemag #bigandblunt #representationmatters #feminist #activist #blackgirlmagic #fatactivist
Poor unfortunate souls. Needing the satisfaction of hurting others because of their own misfortunes. But it's ok we forgive them and wish them the best because, We already know we're gorgeous. 💎 #beautiful #bliss #summer #pink #bigandblunt #plussize #plussizestylewatch #makeup #mermaid #braids #eyebrows #eyes #positivevibes #dontgiveup #keepgoing #like4like #comment4comment #confidence #follow4follow #forgiveness #effyourbeautystandards #everything #blogger #latenight #bodypositive #highlighter #glow #face #contour #eyeliner
"We all want emotional intimacy. Fat people don't get a lot of love in the scheme of things, and I think that makes us feel less worthy." . Tap the link in my bio to read more about being in one night to lifetime romantic relationships as a fat or plus-size person. 💜✨💜
People have commented to me both directly and indirectly about always posting pictures of myself. The assumption is that I'm conceded or preoccupied with my looks. The fact is that there were many years of my life where I was ashamed of my size, big lips and wide noes. I couldn't appreciate the fullness of my hips and breast. Though I have always held my head high and presented myself as confident, even as a child, I secretly wished my lips, hips and breast were smaller. It has taken years for me to decided that if I never lose an inch, I AM BEAUTIFUL just the way I am. I post a lot of pictures of myself not just as a visual reminder to myself, but for anyone else who has ever been told that their features or body type makes them less attractive. It's a Lie! We are ALL beautiful! #CelebratingMe #CelebratingYou #ootd #psootd #curvy #plussizefashion #plussize  #plussizegirls #plussizemodel #plussizebeauties #bodypositive #bodyconfidence #bigandblunt #bbw #bbwlove #curvygirlfever #biglips #curvyfashionista  #bbwappreciation #blackisbeautiful #bigandbeautiful #bigbeautifulblackgirls #fullfigured #boldcurvyfashionista #blackgirlmajic #mystyle #selfiesforselflove #purebodylove
Honestly I've been told I was stupid and destined for failure my whole life....people of power, people i looked up to always shot me down and told me i'd do no better than jail...every dream I ever saw, every goal I ever wanted was automatically shot down like if I was worthless... it might not be much but coming home to this made me truly proud for the first time in my life ✊👌💪🙏 I'm happy i finally took control of my life, I'm happy i no longer let negativity guide me....its been a hard stressful life but I wouldn't give it up because I can share with my future kids and anyone that is going through the same situations... #strivingforgreatness #justmegorgeous #betterasiam #effyourbeautystandards #stopthestigma #loveyourself  #livelife #lovelife #fuckwhatyouthink #bigandblunt #effyourbodystandards #youarenotalone #mentalillness #goodvibes #positivevibes #happiness #love #mentalhealth #college #positivethinking #fuckwhatpeoplethink #behappy #beautyisnotgeneric #selflove #neverchange #beautiful
A lot of people do not know that I was as a stylist in the retail industry for over 10 years!So when I get to do fun creative things like wear Lingerie as street wear? I do it with glee. Just to show you all the fun you can have when experimenting with your personal style. 🖤 Please check out my Blog space over the next few weeks to see how I styled my picks from @lacecanada. Use the code: "Annika25" to get 25% off of your purchase 💋 🖤 Photo Credit: @michaelkim1976 Outfit Details: cover all by @josephribkoff sold at @sexyplus Jeans by: @melissamccarthy sold @penningtons #plussize #plussizefashion #canadianplussizefashion #canadiancurvies #torontoplussizefashion #daretowear #lacecanada #torontoblogger #effyourbeautystandards #bigandblunt #goldenconfidence #torridmodelsearch #fashion www.thestylishreid.com
Some Snapchat filter fun! Not a high beauty day over here, So we Snapchat! Hope everyone had a great Wednesday! If your feeling low and down just remember the sun goes down and it comes back up . As long as the sun can have highs and lows we can move with the punches as well! I am here hoping the best for you all! Xoxo🎀 #effyourbeautystandards #nobodyshame #everybodyisbeautiful #beautifulatanysize #bodypostivity #bodypostive #bigisbeautiful #bigandblunt #beyourownbeautiful #bopo #HonorMyCurves #ownyourcurves #plussize #plussizelady #selfie #selfieforselflove #Snapchat #survining #survivor #fightingforlife #fightingdepression #fightinganxiety #depression #anxiety