- The truth is unpopular. All of this talk about deadbeats. Granted, deadbeat parents are a huge problem, but what's a bigger problem is the people we are choosing to have kids with. I myself am guilty of this and wish I would have known better in my younger age. We need to stop having children with people we have no intentions of being a family with. Family planning is an element that is missing in today's society. People take risks, get pregnant, and have babies, not worrying about the future. People are so gun ho on being able to take care of a baby regardless of the circumstance. Man, that child deserves a two parent household. Not simply two parents, but a two parent household. A household of love when parents raise the child together as one. All of these broken homes. We need to make having children a more serious and planned decision. Not hey I'm pregnant and I'm having the baby. And coparenting isn't the same. The child is still not getting the two parent household he or she deserves. Didn't you want to grow up in a two parent household? Why wouldn't you want the same for your child? And someone's going to say that you can't control the circumstances. You can't, but you can reduce the odds and many of us are making bad decisions from the jump. I know I did. Let's make building family a priority. Just my 2 cents Finally, a relationship novel from a male's point of view! No sugarcoating.
Dear Women I Haven't Slept With, the novel. Available in ebook at Amazon or Barnes and Noble
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