The secret is never to expect a single thing from anyone. There will always be disappointments in life. People will always disappoint you but you have to learn how to become your own hero. Learn how to adapt, how to overcome, and how to become reliant on yourself for anything you want. Millennials have this pre disposed idea that we "deserve" things. You don't deserve a damn thing. You earn it. You work for it. You want to do something? Get a different job, get stronger, travel, get better grades? You WORK for it. No one is holding a spoon to your mouth you have to learn how to use a sword.